Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Zach Returns

This is Debbie writing for the blog, usually it is Todd and Peggy, and since it is me, it will be my take on the event. I must admit I have been a little, no a lot, focused on the wedding of Tyler, which by the way, is next week. Due to this obsession, I had not been aware of others in the world. I only go on my daily to do list, checking things off and accomplishing the many related tasks. Peggy mentioned on Saturday, that Zack our nephew, Scott's boy, was coming in from Iraq one day soon. She told us that Scott and Linda may or may not be able to come to the wedding depending on the day he comes in. That was exciting and great news and certainly understandable. She said she would let us know when he was coming home. On Sunday Peggy finds out that Zack is coming into Salt Lake City on Monday. They don't know a time, but let's all go down. I told her, you bet, sure, we would love to, and in my mind I am frantically going through to see if I can get my million errands that are on my Monday list done and still get to see Zack come home. I am still in my "I" mode, which I am sad to admit. At 2:00 was the time to meet at the airport. Let me tell you, that was the most humbling, emotional, touching and interesting experience I have ever had. When I was little I went to the airport with my mom and grandmother to send off my grandma's sister. She was a little on the grumpy side and so I am sure everyone was glad her visit was coming to an end. However, when I got to the airport, I immediately started to cry for some strange reason. Ever since that experience, I cry at airports coming or going, me or anyone else. Complete strangers, various trips, different purposes for the trips, it doesn't matter I am a basket case at airports. I probably need some kind of medication before I even get in the car. Anyway, we pull into the army air base and park the car. We start walking toward a big building with about 1,000 other people. Mind you, I had no idea what to expect. We went to a large hanger where the families were waiting for the plane to be unloaded. I wasn't there 10 seconds, when all the airport emotions started to flow. The sight was unreal, families with signs, young moms with their babies and small children waiting for their dads, brothers and sisters, parents, grandparents, it was overwhelming. I could not get my emotions in check. Two rows of soldiers with flags lined the walkway of the young men coming out of the plane. Coming off the plane they all looked the same, dressed the same, same build, but there was no missing Zack. He was about the fourth one off the plane. Watching him hug his mom, sisters, and family, broke my heart. He looked wonderful. While he was saying hello to everyone, I looked around and saw the same emotional reunion with all the other families. My feelings on the war in Iraq have been limited, it has not touched me personally. I know I love my country. I know that we have freedom,

because of these brave men, but I was hit with a sledge hammer on Monday witnessing this sight. I felt in awe of these young men, honored to be in their presence. I am appalled and embarrassed at my apathy towards the war and the efforts of all the young men who are willing to leave their homes, family and country to enable me to have freedom. It was an eye opening and humbling experience. I have a new respect and gratitude for Zack and my nephew Lyle who is still out, as well as all of those other soldiers. I am indebted to these men and women who serve, as well as, their families who let them leave and support them. It was a wonderful experience, one that I will treasure always.

Here is the Video from KSL News. Zach is walking between the flags.


The article from KSL

Utah soldiers return home after 10-month deployment
May 26th, 2008 @ 10:00pm
Sarah Dallof and Sam Penrod reporting

Eighty Utah soldiers from the First Battalion, 145th Field Artillery Unit, had special reason to celebrate on Memorial Day: they're home with loved ones for the first time in 10 months.
Their plane landed at the Air National Guard Base at 765 N. 2200 W. in Salt Lake City just a few minutes before 2 p.m. Monday.

Before the landing, family and friends waited anxiously inside, holding homemade signs and American flags. Members of the 145th have been gone since June, and they've definitely been missed.

Evelyn Black was waiting for her sons. She said, "It's like a big pit in your stomach, and it never goes away until they're coming back to safe ground, back to Utah."
Two brothers had an incredible story to tell. One was returning, the other anxiously waiting. Their family excitedly welcomed Jon Carlson home Monday. His twin brother, James, is also with the National Guard. The brothers actually served together on a previous tour.
"He actually signed up before I did. Once he had signed up, then I figured, you know, I've gotta follow my brother," James said.

As the plane landed, the Carlson family was front and center. James was the first to hug Jon. Jon said, "It was amazing. Pretty much the best feeling in my life."
The twins and the family are back together and already looking toward the future.
There were a lot of cheers and tears as soldiers searched for their loved ones. After hugs, they started making plans. They were deciding where to eat, what to do and where to go on vacation.
Those are some hard-earned vacations. These soldiers were performing military-police duties in Iraq since June.
Spc. Christopher Braisted said, "It's pretty windy, sandy, the sky isn't as clear as it is here. It's pretty good to see some blue skies and see some mountains."

The soldiers in the 145th spent nearly the last year at Camp Bucca, Iraq, a prison camp built in the desert of Southern Iraq just across from the Kuwaiti border. It's where approximately 19,000 Iraqi detainees are held, including 2,000 al-Qaida prisoners.
Just last month, CNN got a rare look inside Camp Bucca, where the 145th has been stationed. The Utah troops worked as military police guards, providing security and responding to riots within the camp.

Sgt. Jonathon Carlson told us, "We worked a lot together, and we worked really well together. So despite being away from family, it was bearable, but it sure is good to be home."
The soldiers' homecoming in Utah is also a drastic change of climate, from 115 degrees last week in Iraq to what they came home to Monday.
Spc. Braisted said, "There's hardly any vegetation out there where I was. It only rained a few times, so it's pretty neat to come back and see rain for the first time in months."
This is the first of three groups that will be coming home in the next few days.
The soldiers have been undergoing the demobilization process at Fort Bliss, Texas, since arriving back on U.S. soil earlier this week.
The 145th consists of soldiers from Logan, Brigham City, Manti, Spanish Fork, Fillmore and Camp Williams.

Friday, May 2, 2008

Mom's Adoption Story

Mom's Story about her family

Thursday, May 1, 2008

Wax Museum

Paige was part of her class wax museum. They all meet in the school gym and when you push on a button the student would give a little speech telling you who they were. She learned much from this experience. She was hesitant to take her gun, because it is a weapon and that is breaking school rules. She is very aware of the school rules, unlike the 4 Nixon boys and that includes Todd. The boys at school did think that it was pretty cool that she had her very own BB gun. Today, she had her recorder concert. The kids could earn Karate belt colors for passing off different levels of songs. She has her black belt. She passed Miles, Jeremy, and Tyler and knew more than just "Hot Cross Buns". On Saturday, she is dancing in a competition at Lagoon. I will try to bring a camera, since I did forget it for the concert. I always do lose "Mother of the Year Award" soon after January 1st. We will not be spending the day on rides. We are hustling home to go to the bridal shower for Kandice.

Oh happy day, only 35 days until we have joint

custody with someone else with that sweet Tyler. We love that girl.

The other little gal sitting on a desk at the Wax Museum is Ashlee Thornock. She is a little friend of Paige.

Ellen Watson, dubbed by Wyoming newspapers in the late 1880’s, as “Cattle Kate,” was long thought of as an outlaw. Watson, and her boyfriend (or husband,) Jim Averell were hanged by vigilantes near the Sweetwater River in Wyoming on July 20, 1889, for the accused crime of cattle rustling. However, since their deaths, historians have theorized that their murders were unjustified, perpetrated by powerful land and cattle barons of the time. This was just one of the many actions taken by the Wyoming Stock Growers Association who controlled the cattle industry in Wyoming and was trying to run off the small cattle owners.
Though the six men who hanged the pair were charged with murder, key witnesses began to mysteriously die or disappear and all of them were acquitted. Both Averell and "Cattle Kate" were "tried" in the press, which was owned or influenced by the cattle barons, and branded as "outlaws."

Monday, April 7, 2008

You Know When .......


1. When your Family Home Evening is a trip to the stockyards;

2. When your family vacation is a trip to the county fair!

3. When you use the car wash as a cow wash (to "clean 'em up, ready to win de prize")

4. When you have a bear in your bedroom and a moose on your wall;

5. When your trophy room doubles as a bedroom;

6. When your front room is nicknamed the "Dead-Head" room;

7. When the hamburger in the freezer is from the cow who crushed you into the fence;

8. When your better-half puts a calf in the bathtub;

9. When he uses your blow dryer to dry it off;

10. When your "mud room" is really filled with mud, and sometimes blood;

11. When you've pulled more calves than weeds;

12. When the beef in the freezer is the "cow from the wash";

13.When you are pulled over by a cop for transporting "the cow from the wash" in the back-hoe bucket;

14. When your kindergarten child explains preg testing in sharing time;

15. When your grandson thinks cows "poop out" their calves;

16. When hunting comes before your birthday;

17. When the horse your hubby rides was your birthday present;

18. When you use your car to herd the cows and a cow dents the fender;

19. When you hope the next wreck you're, in dents the same fender;

20. When you are the cook for the hay crew;

21. When you are the hay crew;

22. When you holler for the kids, but the dogs come;

23. When the consequence for misbehavior is shoveling manure;

24. When you spend more hours in the day on the way to and from the bus stop than the kids spend watching TV;

25. When you only get to watch TV to get the weather - on all stations and at all times of the day;

26. When you can pack for a week-long pack trip in 30 minutes;

27. When you know what a pack trip is;

28. When your only recipe book is for a Dutch oven;

29. When your only pans are Dutch ovens;

30. When you hubby's lost in the woods and 17 horse trailers pulled by Power Stroke Diesels show up before search and rescue.

31. When you take your hubby's Power Stroke to town and get an arm cramp from waving;

32. When you open the washer and it's full of newly washed calf ears;

33. When "Show and Tell" is not a pretty rock but bull horns;

34. When the biggest junk collectors are ranchers and teachers and he is both;

35. When you get a flat from an empty hypodermic needle;

36. When your hubby gets a bull bag for Christmas and his next present is "utterly" ridiculous;

37. When he "Displays" the bull bag on the front room coffee table as the centerpiece;

38. When your daughters wedding breakfast is held at the Big Z;

39. When your Lamaze partner is your Mother-in-law;

40. When your greatest shopping pleasure changes from Nordstrom’s to Smith and Edwards;

41. When you order dessert at the Big Z!!!

42. When you know what the "Big Z" is! (it happens to be a diner close to the livestock auction)

43. When you move bales before breakfast;

44. When your tractor is the only vehicle with air conditioning and full surround sound stereo with a remote;

45. When you do the dishes while the rest of the hay crew sleeps on the floor.

46. When there are more grandkids in the hay crew than adults!

(During the year that Paige was born, one of the popular things on the radio was Jeff Foxworthy’s “You Know You’re a Redneck when…” While waiting in the doctor’s office and eating, Debbie and Mom made up this list:)

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Miles and the State Champs

For the last several years we have went to Denver Colorado for wrestling tournaments. Some years three different times. One year it was Miles, Jeremy, Grandpa and Myself. The interesting thing was that Miles was the only one who could wrestle. So he had three coaches. Some people in the motel asked to borrow our scales and while the kid was weighing the Dad asked if both of the boys were in the tournament and we said "oh no just the little one". Then the man said "boy he must be really tough if this one boy has three coaches".

Well this year we went to Denver with Miles and found a herd of state champions in his weight (171). Normally you will see 4 or 5 state champions with maybe 1 that is a two time or a three timer but that was not the case this year. This year there were 9 state champions out of 36 in the weight. It seemed like a lot but as people kept talking and other dads were researching we were told that of the 9 Miles was the only one time state champion. There were 2 timers that were juniors and seniors. There were 3 timers that were juniors and seniors and there was one 4 time state champion out of South Dakota. Coaches from Wyoming would ask me what Miles was seated in the tournament and Iwould say "nothing?" then they would come back and tell me that what a tough weigh he was in.

Miles first match was pretty simple. It was the only match that he wrestled on Friday. The kid was not a state champion and he didn't last very long. Saturday was the big day. He started by wrestling a 2 time state champion out of New Mexico. The kid was a senior and had only been beaten twice this year. See the picture above. Then he wrestled a 4 time champion out of South Dakota. Now let me explain the way the big tournaments works. They have the bracket at one table or mat and you wrestle on that mat the entire tournament. No names are called by the announcer the whole tournament runs on a numbering system. By looking at your bracket you find your match number then show up when it is your turn to wrestle. Since there is no announcer screeming out names all day long they play music instead. Miles loves music. He gets this little dancey bounce going and he is laughing and joking around with the people around him and this gets him going. The happier he is at the edge of the mat the meaner he is on the mat.

So, back to his two matches. with the 2 timer out of New Mexico they were both even with each other on their feet. In the second period though Miles caught him in a cradle and scored two points that was the difference in the match. Miles ended up wrestling this kid again and lost because the kid caught him with a little trick and scored two points. They were both very even.

The South Dakota kid was the 4 timer and a senior. This kid however had been beaten several times throughout the year. After the match (where Miles pinned the kid) Miles was talking to him and he asked Miles if he tried to stay in shape and Miles said "well sort of" then the kid asked him if he drank beer and Miles said "no" then the kid said "Oh that is the difference". It was very funny.
Miles ended up fifth at the tournament. He beat 2 time, 3 time and 4 time state champions. He was beaten by the kid who won the tournament from Montana a state champion last year at 171 and this year at 189. He was very strong. In wyoming Miles lookes like a big 171 lb wrestler but in Denver he was little.
Here is a video of his best match. He wrestled on a raised platform and it was all very exciting.

You can see some of his matches on YouTube at: http://www.youtube.com/user/mbartnixon

Thursday, March 13, 2008

Tyler found the most wonderful girl at a dance in Green River. He had shown up at the dance with his usual herd of boys following him. At the dance he saw the most beautiful girl and knew that he would marry her. He started asking her to dance and as the night progressed, somehow, Tyler had another boy come from Evanston to pick up the boys that were with him so he could take his Vision of Loveliness home by himself. This was a huge step for him. He actually began to date instead of hang out. He came home that night and didn't stop smiling and giggling for two days. We knew she was special. He kept saying over and over how beautiful she was. He just couldn't get over that.
It progressed into a full blown summer of fun and frenzy. Finally at Christmas they became engaged. He and Brady plotted and planned how to propose. They secured the rings and put the plan into effect. They conned the two girls into to coming to the ranch to work cows on a cold winter day. It ended up being one cow that needed to be put in the corral. Then they took off the saddles and went up the road to "check gates". Well the gates that they were "checking" were gates that were buried in snow and had been closed for months. It was very cold 10 or 12 below zero. Brady had the plan of giving Alayna M&M's that had "will you marry me" written on them but she just kept eating them. Tyler had 7 or 8 different types of rings that he kept handing to Candice.

They where entered in a Wedding Contest Giveaway. They lost but we know they were the best cutest couple.

Kandice and Tyler